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Dr Ted Hiscock

STIs – what they are and how they’re relevant to divorce

Dr Ted Hiscock

Dr Ted Hiscock

By Dr Ted Hiscock

The Clap (gonorrhoea), the Pox (so-called great pox or syphilis), non-specific urethritis (NSU), venereal diseases, (VD) & VD clinics are all historic terms for sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), which have been replaced with more current ones – Chlamydia, genito-urinary medicine (GUM), sexual health clinics (SHCs) and GUM clinics. Even STDs have, in the last decade, been superseded by the term sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Why all these changes? Is it purely to confuse Jo/e Public and blind him and her with scientific jargon? Do they have any relevance to divorce matters? The answer is complex, but based upon a number of issues.

First: Venereology was the study and treatment of infections transmitted between individuals only by sexual intercourse. These included syphilis and gonorrhoea and were dealt with in special centres where client confidentiality was protected at all costs – even from the family GP and spouse.

Second; many conditions treated today were not even known 50 years ago, e.g. Chlamydia, bacterial vaginosis and vulvadynia.

Third: Knowledge has improved, and conditions thought not to be sexually transmitted are now known to be so, e.g. Trichomonas.

Fourth: Different countries in the world place STIs in different specialities. In the UK they are dealt with by GUM physicians but in many European countries they are the domain of dermatologists (skin specialists).

Finally; some conditions such as HIV, AIDS and Hepatitis B & C are modern conditions whose significance and potential in the world have only been appreciated in the last 25 years. All very confusing even for those working in the field!

Unfortunately, added to this melange of terminology, the occult behaviour and lack of symptoms of some of these conditions make them very difficult to spot.

Chlamydia, syphilis, HIV early stage disease and hepatitis B & C tend to go unnoticed for some considerable time and even gonorrhoea may not produce any symptoms until in an advanced state. Conditions like genital warts and herpes may not be acquired through sexual intercourse and may only appear many months after they have passed into the system.

The visual appearance of these innocuous viral infections often send shivers of horror through the recipient who feels dirty, ugly and cheapened. The condition Trichomonas used to be considered innocent and a problem only for women, but it is now known that although most male partners do not have symptoms of the infection they probably harbour the organism and pass it on to female partners. Conversely, 30 years ago, it was always said that NSU was only a male condition and that women were safe. With modern techniques, it is now known that most of these cases are caused by Chlamydia!

Human behaviour is another important vector to confuse this world of STIs. If only the human population would remain monogamous, or use condoms, the life cycle of many of these little nasties would falter.

Sadly, the reality of humans needing to propagate the species in the most exciting and lustful manner often leads to extramarital affairs. So many of these exploits overshadow safety and regard for the health and safety of loved ones. Thus when marriage breaks down, with all its heartache of home and family dehiscence, it is curious that the risk of having picked up a STI is not high on the list of considerations for many going through divorce.

Before moving on in life into new chapters, it is always advisable to confront the spectre of possibility and have a screening for STIs. And, have a blood test for HIV; it is better to know than not as early treatment nowadays saves lives.

• Dr Ted Hiscock has worked in GU Medicine for more than 35 years and consults from his surgery in Erdington and also from Whittall Street Clinic, Birmingham



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